Grey’s Anatomy Season 7 Spoilers: MerDer Spoilers!

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June 23, 2010

Is it just me or do we never get spoilers on Seattle Grace’s golden couple? Well here are some spoilers, finally!

I am so confused about ‘Grey’s Anatomy’s Meredith and Derek. I thought that they did not get married, but only pretended to on a Post-It note. Yet everyone references them as man and wife. Are they really married, and if so when did that happen? – Michele

Trust your instincts: Mer/Der are not legally married. And a formal wedding ‘tween the two is likely never to be seen. “I get why the fans want it; I’d probably want it too if I was just watching,” show boss Shonda Rhimes told EW.com. “But I literally feel sick every time I think about Meredith in a big white poufy dress.”

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  • Stephanie

    Omg I don’t care if you feel nosiated!! If most of the viewers want it make it happen. Also absolutely love Lexi and Alex together!!!

  • Stephanie

    Omg I don’t care if you feel nosiated!! If most of the viewers want it make it happen. Also absolutely love Lexi and Alex together!!!

  • Stephanie

    Omg I don’t care if you feel nosiated!! If most of the viewers want it make it happen. Also absolutely love Lexi and Alex together!!!

  • Stephanie

    Omg I don’t care if you feel nosiated!! If most of the viewers want it make it happen. Also absolutely love Lexi and Alex together!!!

  • Nene

    Personal, I think that there post it-note is real…. It may not be legal but, indeed it is real to them… Beside I think that there post it-note is more of a marriage to Derek then his marriage to Addie… I feel that if there not going to be a wedding that fine however, I do think that they should have something legal done just in case something happens. Because of now everthing would be left up to the next of kin and that is all bad… Because Indeed they are married even if it not in the legal since…

  • Nene

    Personal, I think that there post it-note is real…. It may not be legal but, indeed it is real to them… Beside I think that there post it-note is more of a marriage to Derek then his marriage to Addie… I feel that if there not going to be a wedding that fine however, I do think that they should have something legal done just in case something happens. Because of now everthing would be left up to the next of kin and that is all bad… Because Indeed they are married even if it not in the legal since…

  • Nene

    Personal, I think that there post it-note is real…. It may not be legal but, indeed it is real to them… Beside I think that there post it-note is more of a marriage to Derek then his marriage to Addie… I feel that if there not going to be a wedding that fine however, I do think that they should have something legal done just in case something happens. Because of now everthing would be left up to the next of kin and that is all bad… Because Indeed they are married even if it not in the legal since…

  • Nene

    Personal, I think that there post it-note is real…. It may not be legal but, indeed it is real to them… Beside I think that there post it-note is more of a marriage to Derek then his marriage to Addie… I feel that if there not going to be a wedding that fine however, I do think that they should have something legal done just in case something happens. Because of now everthing would be left up to the next of kin and that is all bad… Because Indeed they are married even if it not in the legal since…

  • Kate

    I definetly think the marriage should be made legal. She doesn’t have to have meredith in a big white puffy dress or have a huge wedding..they could have 2 things happen. She could have them get married in the hospital in their scrubs because that’s there life or just have them go to town hall. But it should be legal especially if they bring children into the mix or if something should happen to either of them (derek got shot what if he had of died??)–just an example. I would love to see mer in a white dress. Shonda should put her “nauseating” feelings aside and give the viewers what they want a mer/der wedding. We have waited this long to see them together just have them officially “tie the knot!”.

  • Kate

    I definetly think the marriage should be made legal. She doesn’t have to have meredith in a big white puffy dress or have a huge wedding..they could have 2 things happen. She could have them get married in the hospital in their scrubs because that’s there life or just have them go to town hall. But it should be legal especially if they bring children into the mix or if something should happen to either of them (derek got shot what if he had of died??)–just an example. I would love to see mer in a white dress. Shonda should put her “nauseating” feelings aside and give the viewers what they want a mer/der wedding. We have waited this long to see them together just have them officially “tie the knot!”.

  • Kate

    I definetly think the marriage should be made legal. She doesn’t have to have meredith in a big white puffy dress or have a huge wedding..they could have 2 things happen. She could have them get married in the hospital in their scrubs because that’s there life or just have them go to town hall. But it should be legal especially if they bring children into the mix or if something should happen to either of them (derek got shot what if he had of died??)–just an example. I would love to see mer in a white dress. Shonda should put her “nauseating” feelings aside and give the viewers what they want a mer/der wedding. We have waited this long to see them together just have them officially “tie the knot!”.

  • Kate

    I definetly think the marriage should be made legal. She doesn’t have to have meredith in a big white puffy dress or have a huge wedding..they could have 2 things happen. She could have them get married in the hospital in their scrubs because that’s there life or just have them go to town hall. But it should be legal especially if they bring children into the mix or if something should happen to either of them (derek got shot what if he had of died??)–just an example. I would love to see mer in a white dress. Shonda should put her “nauseating” feelings aside and give the viewers what they want a mer/der wedding. We have waited this long to see them together just have them officially “tie the knot!”.

  • Amanda Corbie

    I agree the idea of Mer in a poofy dress is …just wrong. i like the post it wedding its like their version of marriage is to them. Their married in their hearts and don”t need the governmental paper to seal it. However if they do go through with it; it has to be MerDer style and not izzy style cus thats just not them.;)

  • Amanda Corbie

    I agree the idea of Mer in a poofy dress is …just wrong. i like the post it wedding its like their version of marriage is to them. Their married in their hearts and don”t need the governmental paper to seal it. However if they do go through with it; it has to be MerDer style and not izzy style cus thats just not them.;)

  • Amanda Corbie

    I agree the idea of Mer in a poofy dress is …just wrong. i like the post it wedding its like their version of marriage is to them. Their married in their hearts and don”t need the governmental paper to seal it. However if they do go through with it; it has to be MerDer style and not izzy style cus thats just not them.;)

  • Amanda Corbie

    I agree the idea of Mer in a poofy dress is …just wrong. i like the post it wedding its like their version of marriage is to them. Their married in their hearts and don”t need the governmental paper to seal it. However if they do go through with it; it has to be MerDer style and not izzy style cus thats just not them.;)

  • Kristi

    I def agree that meredith is not the big poufy dress type and now that izzy isnt there to push the big dress on her it likely wouldnt happen like that, however maybe the occurences in the finale will make them eventually realize how much the legal stuff does matter, with her being pregnant, with derek getting shot and almost dying. i can see them going to town hall in their scrubs @ some point and before all the tragedy happened they really had no reason to make it official because it was official to them, she always referred to herself as his wife and he even had her name on the board @ that banquet as mrs. sheperd. no doubt the post it was more real to him then Addison’s and his marriage ever was, could you ever in a million years see either of them cheating on each other?

  • Kristi

    I def agree that meredith is not the big poufy dress type and now that izzy isnt there to push the big dress on her it likely wouldnt happen like that, however maybe the occurences in the finale will make them eventually realize how much the legal stuff does matter, with her being pregnant, with derek getting shot and almost dying. i can see them going to town hall in their scrubs @ some point and before all the tragedy happened they really had no reason to make it official because it was official to them, she always referred to herself as his wife and he even had her name on the board @ that banquet as mrs. sheperd. no doubt the post it was more real to him then Addison’s and his marriage ever was, could you ever in a million years see either of them cheating on each other?

  • Kristi

    I def agree that meredith is not the big poufy dress type and now that izzy isnt there to push the big dress on her it likely wouldnt happen like that, however maybe the occurences in the finale will make them eventually realize how much the legal stuff does matter, with her being pregnant, with derek getting shot and almost dying. i can see them going to town hall in their scrubs @ some point and before all the tragedy happened they really had no reason to make it official because it was official to them, she always referred to herself as his wife and he even had her name on the board @ that banquet as mrs. sheperd. no doubt the post it was more real to him then Addison’s and his marriage ever was, could you ever in a million years see either of them cheating on each other?

  • Kristi

    I def agree that meredith is not the big poufy dress type and now that izzy isnt there to push the big dress on her it likely wouldnt happen like that, however maybe the occurences in the finale will make them eventually realize how much the legal stuff does matter, with her being pregnant, with derek getting shot and almost dying. i can see them going to town hall in their scrubs @ some point and before all the tragedy happened they really had no reason to make it official because it was official to them, she always referred to herself as his wife and he even had her name on the board @ that banquet as mrs. sheperd. no doubt the post it was more real to him then Addison’s and his marriage ever was, could you ever in a million years see either of them cheating on each other?

  • Yaya

    FREAKING CITY HALL! They need to make it legal… It may be a real committed relationship without it being legal but there is this lack of substance in comparison to Addison… He only went back to her because they were married… He didn’t sign the papers but tried to make it work… If they were just post-it note married there would be no need to turn back. A divorce carries a stigma that adds to the importance of teh marriage… MAKE IT LEGAL!

  • Yaya

    FREAKING CITY HALL! They need to make it legal… It may be a real committed relationship without it being legal but there is this lack of substance in comparison to Addison… He only went back to her because they were married… He didn’t sign the papers but tried to make it work… If they were just post-it note married there would be no need to turn back. A divorce carries a stigma that adds to the importance of teh marriage… MAKE IT LEGAL!

  • Yaya

    FREAKING CITY HALL! They need to make it legal… It may be a real committed relationship without it being legal but there is this lack of substance in comparison to Addison… He only went back to her because they were married… He didn’t sign the papers but tried to make it work… If they were just post-it note married there would be no need to turn back. A divorce carries a stigma that adds to the importance of teh marriage… MAKE IT LEGAL!

  • Yaya

    FREAKING CITY HALL! They need to make it legal… It may be a real committed relationship without it being legal but there is this lack of substance in comparison to Addison… He only went back to her because they were married… He didn’t sign the papers but tried to make it work… If they were just post-it note married there would be no need to turn back. A divorce carries a stigma that adds to the importance of teh marriage… MAKE IT LEGAL!

  • Vickie

    I agree that she should not be in a white dress but have them marry casually in City Hall, the hospital, their house or a private destination.

  • Vickie

    I agree that she should not be in a white dress but have them marry casually in City Hall, the hospital, their house or a private destination.

  • Vickie

    I agree that she should not be in a white dress but have them marry casually in City Hall, the hospital, their house or a private destination.

  • Vickie

    I agree that she should not be in a white dress but have them marry casually in City Hall, the hospital, their house or a private destination.

  • maggie37

    Why do they need a BIG wedding? A small affair and a sophisticated cocktail dress, would be wonderful. But they should definitely marry.

  • maggie37

    Why do they need a BIG wedding? A small affair and a sophisticated cocktail dress, would be wonderful. But they should definitely marry.

  • maggie37

    Why do they need a BIG wedding? A small affair and a sophisticated cocktail dress, would be wonderful. But they should definitely marry.

  • http://Season7MerDerSpoilers maggie37

    Why do they need a BIG wedding? A small affair and a sophisticated cocktail dress, would be wonderful. But they should definitely marry.

  • Vickie

    They should definately marry. They can renew their vows just the 2 of them anywhere like the hospital or a destination. It should be legal for the McBabies.

  • Vickie

    They should definately marry. They can renew their vows just the 2 of them anywhere like the hospital or a destination. It should be legal for the McBabies.

  • Vickie

    They should definately marry. They can renew their vows just the 2 of them anywhere like the hospital or a destination. It should be legal for the McBabies.

  • Vickie

    They should definately marry. They can renew their vows just the 2 of them anywhere like the hospital or a destination. It should be legal for the McBabies.

  • Merder09

    they could have got married we don’t know for sure cause we did not see it. But also im pretty sure when izzie and alex got married there was a priest there, so they could have done it without anyone knowing.