The BIG Question, Chair or Dair? (POLL)

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March 9, 2012

Update: Guess viewers really liked the ending of the latest episode because Dair fans have again regained the lead!

Blair Waldorf’s love life has reached maddening new heights! One moment she’s marrying Louis, the next she’s ignoring her “fairytale” for a life with her soul-mate, Chuck, and now Dan!

We’re curious… if the question was “Dair” or “Chair” which would you root for and why?

Let us know your opinion on current poll votes so far and of course what you voted for. My thoughts are in the comments below too.

  • gg

    though  he seems to improve as a human being he stil did stuff that……… i hope people do not forgive such things 

  • S.

    CHAIR, has always been the best thing on GG…but now the writers screwed everything up..Although C&B are my dreamcouple, I also think that CHUCK deserves mcuh better… he deserves someone who really loves him, and is always by his side. Someone warmhearted, an not a Blair..

    I don’t think that the writers can fix C&B. I’ve always loved them as couple and I still do, but I don’t think could believe a reunion of C&B…Actually I can not believe BLAIR anything…
    The show, and especially Blair lost nearly their whole authenticity. So the joy I always had with watching GG is gone. That why I don’t watch anymore, and it doesn’t seem like I will watch anytime again (at the moment).

    I blame the writers, it’s no suprise for me that they screwed up C&B, cause they did the same thing to O.C.’s Ryan&Marissa. ?

    R.I.P. GG

  • LyraGW

    Dan/Blair is literally the only reason I still watch Gossip Girl. Unlike Chuck, Dan actually cares about Blair’s happiness. He doesn’t think love is a “competition”, he doesn’t treat Blair like an object.
    I used to like Chuck/Blair back in the early seasons but they became incredibly messed up. Their relationship is just unhealthy, and uncomfortable to watch now.

  • http://twitter.com/andreapippins1 cabbagepatchbliss

    dair is the only reason I watch anymore. 

  • Pinscuddles11

    DAIR! Dair Dair!

  • gg

    if at the end chair would be the thing it would be soooooooo boring……i like the anti-romence between dan and blair 
    who would thought about them ending together in first 3 season 
    i love the unexpected endings and dair would do it for me

  • Lei286

    if you’re on the fence about DB vs. CB…youtube the words “blair chuck dan blame” and watch the first video you see. If you have any sanity, you’ll see which couple is the better choice.

  • Goldiesinyc

    Chair has been the thing for like 3 out of 5 seasons, so it is no wonder it is a higher percentage, chuck has no problem hooking up with other women, dan is the loyal puppy who wont even consider looking at another girl, i say DAIR all the way!

  • Goldiesinyc

    much like the 80s movie ST ELMOS FIRE, remember judd nelsons cheated on ally sheedys character, and andrew mccarthys character every1 thought was gay because he only wanted to wait for all sheedys character, it is pretty much the same scenerio, very predictable, and what happened with that, she ended with neither one of them at the end! 

  • Goldiesinyc

    serena is step siblings with chuck too, although lily did divorce chucks dad, but still!!!

  • Goldiesinyc

    serena is step siblings with chuck too, although lily did divorce chucks dad, but still!!!

  • Goldiesinyc

    maybe there will be still a chance for Louie, he was good before ……….Louie is HOT!!!!

  • GOLDIESINYC

    blair has the financial resources to exhaust her social circle, it is how many yrs after hs and she is still going back and forth with guys from hs, that isnt reality, these shows are fun to watch because they are soooo melodramatic!!!! DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA 
    BUT WE LOVE IT!!!!!

  • Goldiesinyc

    EXACTLY Dan and Blair if they don’t get ruined, Chuck is wrong, he wants Blair when he it is a challenge, when the challenge isn’t there anymore, he is bored! 
    I think Dan and Blair need to be the given the chance without any1 ruining it, ppl. getting in the way only makes them want to be together more, and that it is exactly what Blair told Chuck, she said don’t target Dan that is only going to bring them closer together, trust me if Dan and Blair go on without the interruption from others, they’ll probably realize that they probably don’t belong together!

  • Goldiesinyc

    EXACTLY Dan and Blair if they don’t get ruined, Chuck is wrong, he wants Blair when he it is a challenge, when the challenge isn’t there anymore, he is bored! 
    I think Dan and Blair need to be the given the chance without any1 ruining it, ppl. getting in the way only makes them want to be together more, and that it is exactly what Blair told Chuck, she said don’t target Dan that is only going to bring them closer together, trust me if Dan and Blair go on without the interruption from others, they’ll probably realize that they probably don’t belong together!

  • Goldiesinyc

    Dan & Blair won’t end up together, but they need to be given the chance to realize that without other ppl. butting in their 2 sense!

  • Goldiesinyc

    Serena will end up with Dan in the end, but the end isn’t near because the shows actors and actresses still want to have a job to go to, they need to prolong the stroyline, but it will be Derena  and Chair in the very end……I know it!

  • catnipsmeow

    Chair shipper logic is ridiculous. All your arguments revolve around how the shows has always been “Chair”, so it should stay that way. If you did your research you’d know the writers had plans for Dan and Blair since season 1. The writers are trying to teach viewers that you don’t just fall in love once. People change, feelings change. I shipped Chair until season 3, where he sold her for a hotel. Where he selfishly manipulated her, and took advantage of how much she loved him, because he assumed she’d stick around. In the beginning, I wanted Dair just so Chuck would turn into a better man and fight for her. But slowly, I began to see what it could be like for Blair to be loved be a good man. Dan loves her in the most unselfish of ways; their whole dynamic centers around happiness. Dan has sacrificed his feelings for her to be with Chuck. He was the reason Blair got into that limo with Chuck this season, don’t you ever forget that. Blair doesn’t have to scheme, or play games, in order for Dan to tell her her loves her. He will always be there for her. You can say all you want about Blair not deserving Chuck, and that he has become a better man. But he’s not. Chuck is disgusting, and even I had hopes he had changed, but he hasn’t. Chuck is abusive; emotionally and physically, violent, bitter, vengeful, and self-centered when it comes to Blair. Everything he does is for his own benefit, in order to look like the better person. For heaven’s sake, he bankrupts the Waldorfs. If you think that’s true love, you need counseling. Get your shit together, Chair fandom. 

  • catnipsmeow

    Chair shipper logic is ridiculous. All your arguments revolve around how the shows has always been “Chair”, so it should stay that way. If you did your research you’d know the writers had plans for Dan and Blair since season 1. The writers are trying to teach viewers that you don’t just fall in love once. People change, feelings change. I shipped Chair until season 3, where he sold her for a hotel. Where he selfishly manipulated her, and took advantage of how much she loved him, because he assumed she’d stick around. In the beginning, I wanted Dair just so Chuck would turn into a better man and fight for her. But slowly, I began to see what it could be like for Blair to be loved be a good man. Dan loves her in the most unselfish of ways; their whole dynamic centers around happiness. Dan has sacrificed his feelings for her to be with Chuck. He was the reason Blair got into that limo with Chuck this season, don’t you ever forget that. Blair doesn’t have to scheme, or play games, in order for Dan to tell her her loves her. He will always be there for her. You can say all you want about Blair not deserving Chuck, and that he has become a better man. But he’s not. Chuck is disgusting, and even I had hopes he had changed, but he hasn’t. Chuck is abusive; emotionally and physically, violent, bitter, vengeful, and self-centered when it comes to Blair. Everything he does is for his own benefit, in order to look like the better person. For heaven’s sake, he bankrupts the Waldorfs. If you think that’s true love, you need counseling. Get your shit together, Chair fandom. 

  • catnipsmeow

    • Dan has been there for Blair since Chuck chose Reina over her.I dair you to come up with one instance since then that he has let her down, video blast aside.• It hasn’t been confirmed he sent in that video, nor his reasons.Slow your roll, furniture shipper.• Dan and Blair kiss, while she’s trapped in a loveless marriage.Ohmygawd Blair totally doesn’t deserve Chuck, she’s such a slut.• Chuck had sex with Blair while she was engaged to Louis and claimed to love him. But das alrite becuz its tru luv~ 

  • catnipsmeow

    • Dan has been there for Blair since Chuck chose Reina over her.I dair you to come up with one instance since then that he has let her down, video blast aside.• It hasn’t been confirmed he sent in that video, nor his reasons.Slow your roll, furniture shipper.• Dan and Blair kiss, while she’s trapped in a loveless marriage.Ohmygawd Blair totally doesn’t deserve Chuck, she’s such a slut.• Chuck had sex with Blair while she was engaged to Louis and claimed to love him. But das alrite becuz its tru luv~ 

  • catnipsmeow

    • Dan has been there for Blair since Chuck chose Reina over her.I dair you to come up with one instance since then that he has let her down, video blast aside.• It hasn’t been confirmed he sent in that video, nor his reasons.Slow your roll, furniture shipper.• Dan and Blair kiss, while she’s trapped in a loveless marriage.Ohmygawd Blair totally doesn’t deserve Chuck, she’s such a slut.• Chuck had sex with Blair while she was engaged to Louis and claimed to love him. But das alrite becuz its tru luv~ 

  • Svetla Noel

    I’ve been in Blair’s shoes and from my experience I can only say that if she goes back to chuck there will be no happy ending and before teenage girls and grown women with equal emotional maturity start screaming let me explain my reasons. you may or you may not agree with me the chose is yours.
    Chuck is Blair’s first love, big love, there is no denying it however when push comes to shove chuck switches back to his egoistical, bad boy persona. He may have ”given” Blair to Louis but only after he had her and knew that he could have her again not before.  that’s not selfless in my book. every time they tried to be together in the past  seasons they couldn’t work it out. chuck keeps Blair on her toes and this constant emotional harassment can be very destructive. This is about self-preservation because if your partner keeps on taking  more than he is giving that’s not love on his part. This is too long so I’m going to cut it short. Blair and chuck are unbeatable skimming team but there is much more to life than skimming and that’s where chuck and Blair fail the test. Dan is much more completable with Blair as far as family and work are concern. Blair and Chuck can still be friend, skim together but as a couple I believe Dan is a much better choice. 

  • gg fan

     he is disgusting

  • gg fan

     he is disgusting

  • gg fan

     he is disgusting

  • gg fan

     he is disgusting

  • gg fan

     he is disgusting

  • gg

    that video is the truth ………thats my point=)

  • Kötha

    Now Dair is getting what they search for, and they deserve it

  • Kötha

    You have to deal with Dair for a long long time for now

  • KScarlet

    The writers might want Dair or want to explore it but come on, even they must see the MASSIVE dip in ratings that has been going on since she has found this new love in Dan. People only tuned in on Monday to see what Chuck would do to Dan because of the video. Writers are paid to keep their fans happy and the majority of fans are not happy so it looks like the writers are going to have to change their storyline or the show will continue to lose ratings, end up cancelled and turn into one of those shows who started as good and ends like trash. Plus Dan and Blair have all the chemistry of a duck and a monkey. I’m not saying which is which at the moment. The truth of the matter is they don’t go together, the fans can see it and I’m pretty sure Penn can considering his acting is shocking.
    Yes I am a Chair fan but other shows have been cancelled like this before and its only a matter of time before this one is. The stories are rubbish, the characters are appalling and frankly its lost its mojo. I only watch the bits with Chuck in now, I fast forward everything else. Bleugh. 
    Not cool GG writers, definitely not cool. 

  • AD

    What is quite interesting is that when similar polls on different sites was made last season there was a much larger gap between Chair and Dair. Dair is slowly but steady gaining supporters. And you know what they say, slow and steady wins the race :)

  • sophie

    i did a recap of the last seasons to remember things and it’s definately dair!
    i used to like chair but it got too horrible in the process.many bad moments and i believe no girl should give all of herself trying to be with any guy and try as hell in order to keep his interest and then get treated so badly.for me i thing it was really over when he gave her to his own uncle for a hotel and didn’t realized what he had done and thought it would be fine as long as he has everything he wants with no remorse.what boyfriend does that to someone he loves and cares about?u are supposed to prodect the people u love,not to be the one people need prodection from.u dodn’t use your girlfriends love to gain what u want.my opinion.that’s why i prefer dan as a character,cause he puts blairs happiness first then his own feelings.i also like the actors interaction a lot.
    greetings from europe:)

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001927987686 Lily Walsh

    @5442c49662c4603f664b402c8496ffeb:disqus 
    “In the beginning, I wanted Dair just so Chuck would turn into a better man and fight for her.”
    - He did become a better man, and he did fight for her. And he *did* win. Until their unfortunate mishap. 
    “Blair doesn’t have to scheme, or play games, in order for Dan to tell her her loves her. ”
    - So when Chuck and Blair were in the limo when Louis was gone, and Chuck told her he loved her, that was just a game? 
    “Everything he does is for his own benefit, in order to look like the better person.”
    - I believed this too, not that I ever actually rooted for Dair, but then I remembered the few episodes before the wedding. Chuck allowed Blair to be with Louis and even stopped a third party from ruining her “happiness”, even when he didn’t understand a single part of it. That certainly didn’t make him seem like a better person, when no one knew about the Father’s scheme.
    “For heaven’s sake, he bankrupts the Waldorfs.”
    - Like Chuck said, he didn’t know. While those are just words from Chuck Bass’ mouth, no one can deny that he didn’t know. How was he to know. If you’re using that as your last resort argument, then you “need counseling [to] get your shit together”.
    And while Dan may have people believing that he released the Bridal Suite video for Blair’s happiness, part of him couldn’t deny the fact that he did it for himself to get Blair. As if he hadn’t realized it as an opportunity with those feelings. If he really did do it for Blair’s happiness, he would have tried to bring her back together with Chuck, because that’s his claim for his actions. 

    And even if Chuck is a little screwed up with his emotions, he has every right to be. His father was completely emotionless to him, his mother was just another stranger that betrayed him. He’s never grew up with love, he didn’t know what Blair’s was with him. But he blossomed and flourished under her care, and he deserves a second chance. He has always struggled for attention, kind of like Blair. If Dan were to leave Blair in a split second for Serena, oh wow, those claws would come out. Chuck didn’t need to even be there in those times of Yale.

    So, as much as a guardian friend Dan is, he will never be able to replace Chuck. In the same way that Chuck will never be able to be as good as a friend to Blair. 

    But Dan needs to stay in his place. As number 1 BFF. 

  • KMartin917

    Dair can have their shot for now but it wont last.  Chair will always be endgame.  My ONLY issue with Dair is that Dan deserves to be with someone that truly loves him and that will never be Blair.  She will never love anyone likes she loves Chuck and vice versa.  I do believe Chuck has grown so much as a character and I cannot wait to see what he does now.

    My only correction to the above post is that Chuck has not yet bankrupted the Waldorf’s and should that happen, he didn’t know how much the dowry was so he did that unintentionally.  

    Like I said, I am ok with Dair for now but in the end we all know it will be Chair.  

  • Ann

    I agree with you but I’m sure you have thought this too I’v always imagined cuck and blair I’v watched the series so many times I’v lost count and I’m their biggest fan! Chair FOREVER!!!

  • :)

    being objective what chuck and blair had on the show wasn’t healthy and this kind of relationship doesn’t have a good ending,so i prefer a dan and blair ending.i thing it sets a good example of how relationships should be, like bring out the best in u and not the worst.

  • Bia

    Dan and Blair are flawless. I love Dan and Blair. It is a real  fairytale.

  • Bia

    Dan and Blair are flawless. I love Dan and Blair. It is a real  fairytale.

  • paigew

    The only thing more boring, gross and unbelievable than Dan and Blair where Chuck and Raina.  Why let the ratings fall for the sake of Dair fans?  I love Dan…just not with Blair.  If I had the choice between a great love (passionate) and a right love (safe, boring), I’d pick the great love every time.  Watching Blair kiss Dan is about as exciting as watching paint dry.  

  • dpaige

    “HOT” matters in a TV show and in real life.  

  • catnipsmeow

    No, he didn’t become a better man. I actually like Chuck, when he’s not the lead love interest to Blair. Because around her, that’s when he’s his darkest self as well. That destructive personality doesn’t just apply to Blair. (When they’re around each other.) Chuck slept with Dan’s agent just to get revenge on him. He would have destroyed his career, when at this point, Chuck didn’t know about the video blast. When at this point, all that could be lost was both Dan’s and Blair’s happiness. Blair tells him herself, “Being a good person doesn’t just mean to me.” He hasn’t fully realized what it is to be a decent person. And as for the “Chuck allowed Blair to be with Louis and even stopped a third party from ruining her “happiness”, even when he didn’t understand a single part of it.” Okay, so when he basically stalked Blair, and manipulated Louis into attempting to out their “secret affair” when there was none, that’s trying to make her happy? Uh, no. I never said that ALL that Chuck and Blair do, is for the sake of a game. However, the foundation of their relationship is based on games.  ”Like Chuck said, he didn’t know. While those are just words from Chuck Bass’ mouth, no one can deny that he didn’t know.” In the words of Blair Waldorf,  ”What the fact you were willfully ignorant is supposed to make me feel better?” He didn’t give it a second thought, Chuck knew money would be an issue. Why ? Because he offered to pay the dowry in one of the episodes before. He didn’t know HOW much the dowry was, but that’s his own fault. The difference between Dan and Chuck, is that in that scene, Dan admits to being selfish. He doesn’t try and justify his actions. Chuck feels guilty for all of .000303 seconds, and then blames everything on Dan. It’s just like what you’re doing, you’re justifying all of Chuck’s actions because he grew up in a fucked up situation. Even then, he had the choice to not be destructive. Dan grew up in a family where his mother left him, Jenny, and his dad. He grew up being constantly undermined by the snobby people around him; he was a nobody. Did he fill up on hatred? No. Everybody has a choice, either you let shit get to you, or you grow from it. 

  • Amschafe

    You’re way too obsessed with this show. And frankly, Chair shippers are over the attacks on them and thier ship. You’re allowed to like our ship, we should be allowed to like ours. Instead, we’re attacked and told we like an abusive ship and that we are messed up. And then you have the nerve to make up lies like Chuck physically abusing Blair. Do you not get the concept    character developmenn? Chuck has CHANGED from season 3 All of the characters have. YOu do 

  • Amschafe

    I meant to say you are allowed to ship your ship, we should be allowed the same. It doesn’t matter who YOU personally believe is better for Blair. Blair does not love Dan, period. She’s forcing this relationship and it’s a rebound and that’s obvious to everyone except the most biased Dair shippers. Chuck has changed into a better man. You don’t have to accept that to make it true.

  • Amschafe

    Also, what you do not get is that MOST of the GG fanbase does not feel the way you do. Dair fans are loud and constantly have to try and make themselves known, and they are popular on a few sites, but Chair related things trend worldwide on Twitter every GG episode, and even when it’s not on. We Love Chuck Bass trended during the Oscars. Chair is the most popular ship on GG by far, yet you try and act like all Chair shippers are wrong and you are the majority. It’s not true no matter how much you may want it to be. And actually, yes, pairings that have real development and ups and downs throughout the shows history always end up together. not random rebound pairings at the end.

  • Miss Bubbles

    He does think as love as a competition and couldn’t wait to boast in front of Chuck about him winning . Dan isnt so sweet an innocent, i’m sure he will find time to write annother  book about being in love with a prince’s wife. Blair and Dan deserve each other. Lonely boy will be tossed in the trash just like all the other guys Blair has dated/married this season. Bass deserves better! 

  • Justinelewis31

    the picture of dan and blair is photoshopped….she’s holding the flowers nate gave her in season 2 before tripp and maureens wedding…when grandfather told blair to convinve nate to go to yale….and dhe’s wearing the green coat too (ep 2×21 seder anything)

  • Soflirty84

    Bland will soon be done anyway. Spoilers have stated that they have bad sexual chemistry. They do find a solution for it but it isn’t long term. My guess is the only way they can have sex is if they’re drunk and that’s not a good relationship. They’re the Geaorge/Izzie of GG. Friends turned to lovers with no chemistry then back to friends. Chair relationship is endgame. Dair friendship is endgame.

  • Catherinek94

    I don’t think it’s blair that wants to be with chuck, it’s everygirl who watched the show, Dair is better, end of.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ManOfTalent.Aka.NICC Dominic Wingate

    right finally someone with some sense.

  • Irreplaceabe09

    the Dair storyline is just so boring that i stopped watching the show. Blair has always been my favourite character but recently she’s really boring and that’s all because of Dan(he has been boring from the beginning) and their “love”

  • Kötha

    blair is not in love with dan? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    look the last scene of s5e17, blair is so fucking much in love with dan
     
    and chuck has changed but he is still not what blair is looking for, because blair changed much more than chuck.

  • Kötha

    not for now and not forever, THE BAD GUY WILL LOSE

    DAIR FOR ENDGAME

  • Julian

    Maybe they could clone Blair ! lol

    Dair for me. Just because it’s too late for Chair. Like in the true life, you must know leave the past behind you ! And Chair is the past…

    It’s time for Chuck and Blair to move separately …

  • http://www.facebook.com/ManOfTalent.Aka.NICC Dominic Wingate

     you might wanna check the poll again because it looks like dair is winning

  • lex007

    i don’t give a crap about blair’s choice: louis. No wait?! CHUCK… No i am going to marry louis… wait but he doesn’t want me anymore so i am going to call dan wait dan? WHY NOT? he is the only one i didn’t screw what a disguting whore

  • Rgalvshpbks

    I don’t really ship any relationship so I find it funny that you just told someone else to let you ship your way and they can ship theirs yet you absolutely stated that theirs no way that Blair could have feelings for Dan. If you’re really letting people think what they want you should at least acknowledge that Dan and Blair’s relationship has actually been built for some time now and it doesn’t really seem forced at all. It actually seems a long time coming and judging by the comments the last few months everyone including Chair shippers have seen it. I mean why else would everyone feel the need to voice and protect their couple? And don’t worry I don’t think anyone, even those who ship Dair, have forgotten how intense, entertaining and yes sweet Chair’s love was or is they’ve just changed their mind on whether they liked it or thought it healthy. Whatever couple ends up together I’m sure we’ll all survive the disappointment. Let’s face it at this point at least half of the fans will actually be disappointed when we find out who Blair ends up with. Personally I think Chuck and Dan have two very different relationships with Blair that it actually could go either way.   

  • Hannah

    Real or not, it’ boring.

  • Hannah

    You describe dair as “Nice, comfortable and mature”, however, the show is called “Gossip Girl”. I think the writers need to make up their mind about who their target audience is, and stick to it. 

  • Hannah

    The video is nothing but ‘snip its’ put together favoring one point of view. Any Chair fan could do the exact same thing.

  • Fry_romance

    Dan and Blair FTW!!!im glad to see so much Dair love!

  • Cassey

    As long as blair is happy i am happy and i love dan since the beginning until now… Their friendship and relationship is so unexpected which makes the show exciting and interesting.. You know they both hate each other before, came to different world but they have so much in common and they care and trust each other. And to some people saying they are boring, oh please stop it really, they are so funny and cute. Stop the hating people, just love. Dair is ?.

  • Willowsatine

     its nowhere near boring.

  • Willowsatine

     i have seen plenty of polls where dair has beat out chair so dont get all huffy and proud on a lie

  • Willowsatine

     in my opinion serena and chuck belong together bc they are both controlling assholes

  • Willowsatine

     umm no blair is not his only family lily and rufus love chuck and lily even adopted him and serena is his basically his sis.

  • Vannalane_3

     omg you are so lame lmfao.chuck just needs to jump off the empire state building and have all the chair shippers follow him

  • Willowsatine

     the way blair discovered her feelings about dan was through acting out a play the dan had wrote where she is the star and love of his life.how is that immature?? dan went to the valentines day party knowing he didnt have feeling for serena bc this whole time he has had feelings for blair he was lying to blair bc it wasnt the right time to tell her yet it was blair who assumed dan was there for serena and thats reasonable. about blair being married? thats not a marriage its a business deal that she is forced into.and when it comes to god i think its pretty safe to say that stuff is seriously serious to a lot of people so they dont take god lightly and she wasnt mentally messed up just lost and plenty of people turn to the church for answers and dan may have sent the video but come on we ALL wanted to stop that wedding and i dont recall him blaming chuck. so now that i corrected your mistakes i dont think i even have to go through all the bad things chuck has done directly to blair.yea chuck is the immature asshole here dan has been above all them since the beginning

  • Willowsatine

     you forgetting that he basically tried to attack/rape her? ha-yea fuck chuck

  • catnipsmeow

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL EXCUSE ME, I THINK I JUST DIED. ”
    And then you have the nerve to make up lies like Chuck physically abusing Blair.” Yes, you are COMPLETELY correct. I totally lied about Chuck being physically abusive. I completely hallucinated the episode where Blair tells Chuck she’s engaged to Louis, and he responds by grabbing Blair, implying she’s property by saying she “belongs to him”, and then smashing the window which cuts her. I mean, it’s not like Blair didn’t plead for him to stop, it’s not like she was completely terrified of Chuck at this point, and it’s also not why she ran off. I can’t even deal with how oblivious you sound at this point. 

  • catnipsmeow

    This is a reply to Amschafe, I pressed the wrong reply button. Dnjm. 

  • catnipsmeow

    I have a solution to the people bitching about how Dair cannot possibly happen because “Dan is so bland and boring.” I hope you bunch of females that like fiery, passionate, all-consuming loves where you get compared to horses, stood up, get ditched after you finally say “I love you”, and traded for hotels, receive that kind of true love. I hope those men will sleep with somebody else and give up on you because you’re no more than 10 minutes late to see him on top of the Empire State building, who will hide the fact he slept with said girl and somehow still think he should propose to you, who will grieve with losing you by coming back with a French girl, who will blame you for her leaving him and promise to dedicate his time to destroying everything you’ve worked hard for, who will then succeed in bringing you down, who will then fall in love with another woman, who you’ll have to hear him give his heart to, who will call this woman “what is most sacred” to him, who will once again return to you but only after having no other female in his life, who will have sex with you while you’re engaged to another man, who will make you believe that happiness isn’t important in the face of your all-consuming love, who will blame you for being willing to give yourself up in order for him to have what’s most important to him, when what’s most important to him ends up being a hotel, when you finally get over him and “realize you heart belongs to someone else” and he responds by making sure you end up bankrupt so you can’t attain the happiness you’ve longed since forever ago, who will try to destroy the one person who will the there “even if you lose everything”. If the only fault in the Dan/Blair dynamic it that you believe it’s too bland, then you have not been seeing the same show I have. They banter, and bicker. They laugh at how different their perspectives can be, and how simultaneously, they are completely alike. Their kisses are life-changing. They are filled with hope, and with love. Unselfish, real, pure, and simple love. I sincerely don’t understand what anybody can possibly have against this ship. They have, against all odds, fallen in love with each other. Lonely Boy, and Queen B. The boy who loves her not in spite of who she is, but because of it. The one that knows about her dark sides, and loves them. The one that knows about her sensitive, her “light-filled” sides, and loves them too. They are anything but bland. Watching their interactions is the only thing that has kept Gossip Girl alive. He learned how to live, and she found her center. He stopped being the person he didn’t like very much, she found somebody who would be there for her, “always”, and love her for her. Together, they are the best possible versions of themselves. 

  • catnipsmeow

    They are my OTP, and I will defend their preciousness forever. I will go down with this ship.

  • Willowsatine

     you are a damn liar and a sore loser.nice excuse ” oh the poll is rigged” HA just shut your pie-hole and deal with dair bc its already happening.man you chair fans are just making yourselves look pathetic dair fans have explained time and time again all the reasons why chair failed and will continue to fail at some point they had to give up and so do you if it hasnt worked out by now it obviously wasnt meant to.chair is not endgame its just plain old end of the line hop off at the next stop..DAIR!

  • Willowsatine

     its not a real marriage she wants out and she cant get out the traditional marriage rules do not apply here

  • Willowsatine

     true love does die.sometimes even though 2 people love each other with all their hearts sometimes it just isnt meant to be and they have been trying for so long to make it work and it obviously just doesnt

  • Willowsatine

     oh and i am a true gossip girl fan which i believe means you can see past your own wants and just go with the flow of the show, all of the chair shippers saying oh im gunna quit watching if dair is endgame yea thats real fan talk puh leez the show isnt called chuck and blair forever hell they arent even the main characters

  • Willowsatine

     he may have changed on the outside but on the inside he is still just as sadistic as ever

  • Willowsatine

     if anything dan is better than all of them.