The BIG Question, Chair or Dair? (POLL)

2 years ago, by

March 9, 2012

Update: Guess viewers really liked the ending of the latest episode because Dair fans have again regained the lead!

Blair Waldorf’s love life has reached maddening new heights! One moment she’s marrying Louis, the next she’s ignoring her “fairytale” for a life with her soul-mate, Chuck, and now Dan!

We’re curious… if the question was “Dair” or “Chair” which would you root for and why?

Let us know your opinion on current poll votes so far and of course what you voted for. My thoughts are in the comments below too.

  • Shaaa-s123

    Actually, to be realistic, it hasn’t been chair since the beginning. As i recall.. nate and blair were together in the pilot (until the serena debacle) then the prospect of dan and blair were introduced in 1×04… then chuck and blair had sex in a limo (how classy) in 1×07… so no hasn’t been chair since the beginning. Just sayin.

  • Shaaa-s123


    Blair is a married woman and he kisses her 
    (mature?)”
    Oh My GOD he kissed her? No wayyyyyyyyyyyyy :O
    Ok what about how when blair was engaged to louis and then she had sex with chuck, or have you forgotten? I don’t recall dan sabotaging Blair and her  family (dowry bankruptcy) because of it. Infact I don’t remember Dan sticking in his nose in that situation what so ever. See you wouldn’t see the wrong in blair cheating on Louis (considering she was with him AT THE TIME) with chuck because chuck can do no wrong in your eyes. And note, he kissed her, then she kissed back :)
    Therefore your argument is invalid. Chuck is an ass and always will be, with or without blair.Clearly your definition of mature and mine are different. 

  • Shaaa-s123


    Blair is a married woman and he kisses her 
    (mature?)”
    Oh My GOD he kissed her? No wayyyyyyyyyyyyy :O
    Ok what about how when blair was engaged to louis and then she had sex with chuck, or have you forgotten? I don’t recall dan sabotaging Blair and her  family (dowry bankruptcy) because of it. Infact I don’t remember Dan sticking in his nose in that situation what so ever. See you wouldn’t see the wrong in blair cheating on Louis (considering she was with him AT THE TIME) with chuck because chuck can do no wrong in your eyes. And note, he kissed her, then she kissed back :)
    Therefore your argument is invalid. Chuck is an ass and always will be, with or without blair.Clearly your definition of mature and mine are different. 

  • Shaaa-s123


    Blair is a married woman and he kisses her 
    (mature?)”
    Oh My GOD he kissed her? No wayyyyyyyyyyyyy :O
    Ok what about how when blair was engaged to louis and then she had sex with chuck, or have you forgotten? I don’t recall dan sabotaging Blair and her  family (dowry bankruptcy) because of it. Infact I don’t remember Dan sticking in his nose in that situation what so ever. See you wouldn’t see the wrong in blair cheating on Louis (considering she was with him AT THE TIME) with chuck because chuck can do no wrong in your eyes. And note, he kissed her, then she kissed back :)
    Therefore your argument is invalid. Chuck is an ass and always will be, with or without blair.Clearly your definition of mature and mine are different. 

  • Sunafiction

    I am hearing a lot of “Dair is a meaningless ship” from Chair fans. The response to Dair would suggest otherwise. I am just confused now, all I want is all the characters to end happy. Whatever pairing, or lack thereof, it entails for them to do so.

    I used to be a Chuck/ Blair fan until he sold her to his uncle. She is not a thing to be sold, he does not own her. I would never allow any man to treat me like that, even if it was the love of my life (however, Josh would rather burn than do something like that to me). It was a disgusting way to treat anyone, let alone the woman you love.

    I still like Chuck, but he needs to grow (like he was doing at the start of season 5) in order for me to have any respect for him again.

    I like redeemed characters (Zuko from Avatar the animation, Cole from Charmed, almost all romance heroes etc.), their journey makes for the most interesting to follow. however they lose all their hard won personal developement as soon as they backtrack (the writers did a horrid job with Cole). Blairs development and redemption seems natural, but it would be backtracking if she went to Chuck as he is now. She grew up, but he has not.

    If they are going to end up together I want to see Chuck reach the level that Blair is now (and stay that way). They are in their 20s for goodness sake, they are manipulative 16 year olds any more.

    I really like Dan as a character, he is subtle and not at all boring to me. Did anyone laugh at Georgina and Dans interaction a couple of episodes ago? They have a funny dynamic.

  • Sunafiction

    I am hearing a lot of “Dair is a meaningless ship” from Chair fans. The response to Dair would suggest otherwise. I am just confused now, all I want is all the characters to end happy. Whatever pairing, or lack thereof, it entails for them to do so.

    I used to be a Chuck/ Blair fan until he sold her to his uncle. She is not a thing to be sold, he does not own her. I would never allow any man to treat me like that, even if it was the love of my life (however, Josh would rather burn than do something like that to me). It was a disgusting way to treat anyone, let alone the woman you love.

    I still like Chuck, but he needs to grow (like he was doing at the start of season 5) in order for me to have any respect for him again.

    I like redeemed characters (Zuko from Avatar the animation, Cole from Charmed, almost all romance heroes etc.), their journey makes for the most interesting to follow. however they lose all their hard won personal developement as soon as they backtrack (the writers did a horrid job with Cole). Blairs development and redemption seems natural, but it would be backtracking if she went to Chuck as he is now. She grew up, but he has not.

    If they are going to end up together I want to see Chuck reach the level that Blair is now (and stay that way). They are in their 20s for goodness sake, they are manipulative 16 year olds any more.

    I really like Dan as a character, he is subtle and not at all boring to me. Did anyone laugh at Georgina and Dans interaction a couple of episodes ago? They have a funny dynamic.

  • Sunafiction

    I am hearing a lot of “Dair is a meaningless ship” from Chair fans. The response to Dair would suggest otherwise. I am just confused now, all I want is all the characters to end happy. Whatever pairing, or lack thereof, it entails for them to do so.

    I used to be a Chuck/ Blair fan until he sold her to his uncle. She is not a thing to be sold, he does not own her. I would never allow any man to treat me like that, even if it was the love of my life (however, Josh would rather burn than do something like that to me). It was a disgusting way to treat anyone, let alone the woman you love.

    I still like Chuck, but he needs to grow (like he was doing at the start of season 5) in order for me to have any respect for him again.

    I like redeemed characters (Zuko from Avatar the animation, Cole from Charmed, almost all romance heroes etc.), their journey makes for the most interesting to follow. however they lose all their hard won personal developement as soon as they backtrack (the writers did a horrid job with Cole). Blairs development and redemption seems natural, but it would be backtracking if she went to Chuck as he is now. She grew up, but he has not.

    If they are going to end up together I want to see Chuck reach the level that Blair is now (and stay that way). They are in their 20s for goodness sake, they are manipulative 16 year olds any more.

    I really like Dan as a character, he is subtle and not at all boring to me. Did anyone laugh at Georgina and Dans interaction a couple of episodes ago? They have a funny dynamic.

  • Rgalvshpbks

    OMG I love this. It’s completely true. All Chair fans support their relationship by saying that Chuck and Blair have “passion.” I don’t see how any part of their relationship has been truly passionate. They’ve always been in relationships with other people and then cheated on those people with each other and the one time that they were in an actual relationship they treated each other like property. I think I’ve had bad relationships and none of them come close to how bad Chuck and Blair’s has been. But even with the bad ones i’ve had i still want someone like Dan so I can only imagine how blair feels now that she has Dan. 

  • Rgalvshpbks

    OMG I love this. It’s completely true. All Chair fans support their relationship by saying that Chuck and Blair have “passion.” I don’t see how any part of their relationship has been truly passionate. They’ve always been in relationships with other people and then cheated on those people with each other and the one time that they were in an actual relationship they treated each other like property. I think I’ve had bad relationships and none of them come close to how bad Chuck and Blair’s has been. But even with the bad ones i’ve had i still want someone like Dan so I can only imagine how blair feels now that she has Dan. 

  • S.

    Aren’t you able to bring up real arguments, instead of affronting Chair fans?
    You need not like them, but you have no reason to offend them.

    Whether there are DAIR or CHAIR fans, everybody should each other, so please. If the others can do this, you should be able to do that too!!

  • Annie

    I couldn’t have said it better myself. Bravo! :D

  • Soflirty84

    It must suck to be a Dair fan right about now. How does it feel to know the only way your ship can get it on is when they are trashed. Ausiello already spoiled that it will only be a temporary fix so the days of Bland are almost over. The finale will decide but congrats to you guys that you actually get some Dair eps and not just a on again off again mess like we Chair fans have had. In the end it will be Chair but at least you guys are getting a bone…

  • Soflirty84

    It must suck to be a Dair fan right about now. How does it feel to know the only way your ship can get it on is when they are trashed. Ausiello already spoiled that it will only be a temporary fix so the days of Bland are almost over. The finale will decide but congrats to you guys that you actually get some Dair eps and not just a on again off again mess like we Chair fans have had. In the end it will be Chair but at least you guys are getting a bone…

  • Gumygreen

    Can I marry you?

  • catnipsmeow

    Yes. Be prepared to hear me defend my ships to the death. 

  • catnipsmeow

    Blair Waldorf is Dan’s Humphrey’s girlfriend. Chair fans, your argument is invalid. 

  • Soflirty84

    It’s called a break up. Blair is Dan’s girlfriend now but will she be in the end? I doubt it. Chair fans arguments aren’t invalid based on that fact. The fact is no matter what, Blair always goes back to Chuck and Vice Versa. It’s true love. It’s fate. Their love for eachother can’t be denied and once Blair sees Chuck continuing to become a better man she will be with him. Her one argument about being with Chuck is that he’s not a good person but he is changing that. She is with Dan because she believes he is good for her. She thinks he’s the kind of guy she should be with. He’s safe but clearly they lack chemistry to make a relationship last. They both have to be drunk to have sex and why Dair fans are arguing that makes no sense to me. They’ve had sex now 2 times. The first sober was awful the second drunk was good and then in the end they got in a cab still buzzed and told the driver to go to a bar. Obviously they are going to drink so they can have sex in the bathroom of the bar. If you have to drink to enjoy sex with your mate it’s not meant to be. You can love each other and be completely comfortable with each other but that doesn’t mean you should be together romantically. Dair has confused the ease they feel around each other and the closeness that has developed from mutual interests for love. It’s just close friends and in the end they will see that.

  • Chario Jankinz

    CHAIR’S WINNING! IN YOUR FACE DAN!

  • Chario Jankinz

    CHAIR’S WINNING! IN YOUR FACE DAN!

  • Nina Han

    Chair of course.

  • Nina Han

    Chair of course.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ManOfTalent.Aka.NICC Dominic Wingate

    chair sucks so much it gives the wrong message to women and young girls out here, telling them to stay with someone even if they are wrong for you, chair is nothing but lust good for ratings because the average person would blind love over good love if it looks prettier. and thats a sad reality.

  • jo

     « They’ve always been in relationships with other people and then cheated
    on those people with each other and the one time that they were in an
    actual relationship they treated each other like property.» is related to the personality of the characters. love that Chuck and Blair have for each other has always been too strong. Dan is just a normal boyfriend who Blair gets tired soon

  • gg fan

    oh shut up you dair suc*ers …………………..CHAIR all the way ! 

  • Jope_misic

    you would be wright if it wasnt Chuck and Blair. also you didnt mention what Blair did to Chuck, and the things hes done for her. Thats their way of dealing with it. And if you want fairytales go watch Cinderella

  • Jope_misic

    you would be wright if it wasnt Chuck and Blair. also you didnt mention what Blair did to Chuck, and the things hes done for her. Thats their way of dealing with it. And if you want fairytales go watch Cinderella

  • Jope_misic

    the writers are not trying to teach viewesr anything, theyre trying to sell the show idiot. and he payed her dowery

  • Nina Han

    You can go to hell.

  • Emma

    All these people who are trashing Chair and Dair have useless causes for everyone out there who think that each couple is ‘ridiculous’. Because people don’t ship couples that everyone disagrees with because they’re stupid or illogical. But because they like seeing them together, or enjoy them in a relationship. And can change their mind while watching the show too. So all the people who keep on trashing Dan and Chuck…. it’s nothing to do with them, and saying that ‘Dair is a meaningless ship’ or ‘Chair shipper logic is ridiculous’ and that both shippers keep attacking each other…. it doesn’t matter. You can ship who you want to and it’s not always going to be like every single veiwer likes the same couple… everyone has differences of opinion. And the show doesn’t revolve around Blair’s love life. So fans who are saying ‘Dair is the only good thing on the show’ or ‘If Chuck and Blair aren’t endgame I’ll stop watching’… well it’s pointless because there’s so many other wonderful things about Gossip Girl.

  • Nina Han

    ur right people are being so mean to chuck saying hes gay and a bad influence on blair.

  • Nikiyo

    dont b mean.

  • Samantha

    I KNOW SO EXCITED Dair was winning by miles before… but now Chair fans have raised aweareness so now we’re winning! So I guess now it’s clear who’s the better couple.

  • catnipsmeow

    The only reason I stated the fact that Chair shipper logic is ridiculous, is because it is. I didn’t decide, out of thin air, to trash talk Chair shippers. I was defending my ship, get over it. I don’t categorize them all as one thing. I think the true Chair fans are the ones holding onto what Blair and Chuck were before the downfall of Season 3. This isn’t simply “everybody can like what they like” anymore. It’s about the healthy relationship, against the abusive one. It has nothing to do with Dan and Chuck? Have you checked what website you’re on? It’s a POLL, on DAIR or CHAIR. lol no, it has everything to do with the characters that are Dan/Blair/Chuck. As of late, Gossip Girl has everything to do with Blair’s love life/it’s a great portion of it. And I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but really, what other wonderful things are there about Gossip Girl now? Dorota, and Georgina are interesting to watch/as are Rufly. But besides that, what? Nate, and his many failed relationships that ALWAYS revolve around women? Chuck and his daddy issues? Serena, and her do-I-want-Nate-or-Dan debacle? Yeah, exactly. 

  • Samantha

    Wow. I just realised what a bitch you really are.

  • Ursunghao

    no u suck ur so violent and mean.

  • SuOpCharc

    Do you practically live on this site? Writing mean comments? Because scrolling down all the cruel comments are yours.

  • catnipsmeow

    Whether I do or don’t, is that really any of your business? Cruel comments? Um, it’s not like I’m directly bringing somebody down. I like how you call my comments cruel and then proceed to insinuate I have no life. Yeah, ok. 

  • http://twitter.com/JennyHolbert1 JennyHolbert

    Chuck and Blair is proof that love conquers all ! C&B it’s C&B.

    “I will always love U…” 4×22

  • http://twitter.com/JennyHolbert1 JennyHolbert

    Chuck and Blair is proof that love conquers all ! C&B it’s C&B.

    “I will always love U…” 4×22

  • http://twitter.com/JennyHolbert1 JennyHolbert

    And “I love U Chuck…” limo scène season 5. Blair and Chuck it’s sooo wonderful, a TRUE LOVE, soo passion, soo desir, sooo magnetic ! CHAIR FOREVER !

  • http://twitter.com/JennyHolbert1 JennyHolbert

    And “I love U Chuck…” limo scène season 5. Blair and Chuck it’s sooo wonderful, a TRUE LOVE, soo passion, soo desir, sooo magnetic ! CHAIR FOREVER !

  • http://twitter.com/JennyHolbert1 JennyHolbert

    She’s always back to him COZ him’s LOVE OF SHE LIFE !!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ManOfTalent.Aka.NICC Dominic Wingate

    Wow now is that dair thats in the league face it chair fans, dair fans have numbers aswell

  • http://www.facebook.com/ManOfTalent.Aka.NICC Dominic Wingate

    Wow now is that dair thats in the league face it chair fans, dair fans have numbers aswell

  • http://www.facebook.com/ManOfTalent.Aka.NICC Dominic Wingate

    Wow now is that DAIR!!! in the lead now, face it chair fans we have numbers too.

  • CHAIROWNS

    how is Dair in the league? Blair is unbelievably boring when she is with Dan, i usually fast forward their crappy conversations, CHAIR forever

  • smcdanhump

    Together, they are the most boring possible versions of themselves. *

  • Mariahbunny

    No its not, dan makes almost no romantic gestures for blair…

  • Gwen

    How are catnipsmeow’s comments cruel & mean?
    I’m neither a Chair nor Dair shipper but definitely a Blair fan. From a non-shipper viewpoint, one has to admit that Blair is in a healthier relationship with Dan. It may be less exciting than with Chuck, but Dair is definitely a mature relationship filled with mutual respect and love. So how can anyone argue that this is bad? 

  • http://www.facebook.com/ManOfTalent.Aka.NICC Dominic Wingate

     Hahaha maybe dair is in the league because most people want a real relationship for blair, not some abusive obsession covered by a bunch of sex scenes. DARE TO DAIR!!!!

  • catnipsmeow

    That awkward moment when somebody says that if I want a fairy tale, to go watch Cinderella.I didn’t know wanting a healthy, and open relationship was so far-fetched it could only be found in fairy tales. I honestly don’t even know what to say.  

  • catnipsmeow

    That awkward moment when somebody says that if I want a fairy tale, to go watch Cinderella.I didn’t know wanting a healthy, and open relationship was so far-fetched it could only be found in fairy tales. I honestly don’t even know what to say.  

  • catnipsmeow

    That awkward moment when somebody says that if I want a fairy tale, to go watch Cinderella.I didn’t know wanting a healthy, and open relationship was so far-fetched it could only be found in fairy tales. I honestly don’t even know what to say.  

  • catnipsmeow

    That awkward moment when somebody says that if I want a fairy tale, to go watch Cinderella.I didn’t know wanting a healthy, and open relationship was so far-fetched it could only be found in fairy tales. I honestly don’t even know what to say.  

  • catnipsmeow

    Thank you for enlightening me, I didn’t know it was possible to be violent VIA internet. 

  • catnipsmeow

    Thank you for enlightening me, I didn’t know it was possible to be violent VIA internet. 

  • Leightonmeesterishot

    Congratulation Chair fans you win.big Dair fan big time but congrats to blair and chuck.Very disapointed that she lead Dan on which she never cared for him at all.Stupid Dan sleeping with Serena.Very pissed of Dair fan.Is there any chance that dan and blair still have a chance I really don’t know.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ManOfTalent.Aka.NICC Dominic Wingate

    I hate when writers have to do the dumbest things just to break up a couple because they know they are really great, dair was great im just sad they will end like this.

  • sparklylittlecookies

    You have to keep in mind that this is a television show. In real life, perhaps the healthiest relationship for Blair would be Dan. However, it is typically true that the couple thats has gotten the most screen time and experienced the most up and downs will end up together. Otherwise, I feel like its a waste of all that time producers took to develop the relationship between the two. So argue and whine all you want, but its likely that Chuck and Blair will end up together. Not that I mind. I love Chuck and Blair.

  • emma

    ok bitch here let me give you an argument so everyone is saying how dan brings the best side of blair out. well sorry to brake it to you but the person that dated dan in season five was not blair that was clair and if you’re saying how you did’t like blair with chuck because she was bad THEN YOU DO NOT KNOW BLAIR WALDOR so all you dair shippers go and rewatch gossip girl from season 1 ok, cause blair was always like that and dan is gossip girl he rewind blairs life almost killed her and chuck and killed her baby. In season 6 dan knew where serena was all along the only reason he told nate was so he could keep his ideantity so the NJBC rocks!!!!!!!!!! so lonely boy just stay lonely , so lauren theres your argument oh and by the way CHAIR 4 EVER !!!!!